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What You Want as Long as It's About Sex
By Shere Hite
"OH! DO YOU PAINT FRECKLES ON YOUR FACE? HOW DO YOU DO THAT?"
After 22 years as a researcher, I've arrived at a key interview to present
400 pages of new research to the press and this was the first question.
What would you make of it? Or of an article in a prestigious newspaper
about an anthology of my work which states: "At age 50, Shere Hite
tottered down the stairs on remarkably high heels." This was followed
by a discussion of whether or not a woman of "my age" has the
right to "still" wear anything other than "practical clothing."
Sexual harassment in print, I guess. The reader is left to drown in oceans
of "information" about my persona, while my ideas disappear
in over-examined body descriptions.
Is it harmless? Could the journalist who asked -- and kept asking -- about
my freckles really detect anything significant in my work, if her mind
was geared to concentrate on my looks? And of course these incessantly
body-ized articles (why discuss a woman's ideas when you can discuss her
body?) have an impact on the attitudes of publishers and reviewers. They
sense the inherent trivialization and don't always look further. They
"know" who I am.
I am not the only woman to experience this by any means. The twentieth-century
feminists Susan Faludi, Germaine Greer, Erica Jong, even Diana (of British
royalty fame), or any woman who speaks out -- all of us are called "colorful,"
"dramatic." Details of our bodies and appearances are hashed
and rehashed in the press, while we write and write, and speak and speak,
hoping to be heard.
Yet surely this trivialization, lamentable as it is, is not censorship.
Censorship is political discrimination or punishment of those who have
certain views unfavorable to the "establishment," those in power.
But wait. This is not intentional censorship -- but it operates just as
surely to stop ideas from reaching people. And this repression can be
worse than official censorship because it is invisible. It is not glorified
by the noble martyrdom attached to the word "censorship."
The censorship of trivialization is also evident in some of the editing
of my work over the years, influencing which books I have been "allowed"
to write, i.e., those for which I have obtained contracts. The Hite Report
on the Family is the fourth in a series of Hite reports. Some of my reports
contain much more comment than my other works. Some editors encouraged
me to expand my ideas, while others cut back almost everything but the
bare bones of the research. Sexist denial that women have anything important
to say is inherent in some editors' viewpoints, sexism I am sure they
do not recognize. By excising my conclusions and comments, they would
effectively silence me.
But, one always thinks, perhaps the editors are right and my words are
not profound.
Censorship Feels Confusing to the Individual
Here are some entries from my diary, written while my last book was being
edited and I was asked to cut large sections of my writing:
"I am nauseous, I cannot speak, my throat is so blocked I begin to
think I must have cancer. Someone, a friend, says to me, ÔMaybe
you feel like you are being strangled because they are cutting your words.'
My throat clears up but my nausea remains, to remind me of my revulsion.
I can't swallow what is happening. I stay up most nights and sleep little,
writing endless faxes to keep my words intact. Wondering, always wondering,
if my work is really Ôso valuable' (a woman's question about her
worth), wondering how much is Ôright' to fight for. I feel alone."
"The atmosphere [at the publishing house] is more and more impregnated
with silence. There is fear all around, from those who would lose their
jobs, from those who aren't used to fear, from those who hope to keep
their heads down, be safe at all costs...like ducks lined up in a row,
ready to be shot."
"I feel on trial, having to explain over and over again the simplest
points, then still being Ômisunderstood,' called names, accused
of being an Ôimposter' (in everything from my name to my research
methods). Like Galileo, I'll say I never meant it: The sun goes around
the Earth, women's oppression is their own fault--clearly!"
Censoring Women's Thought
Men are called "geniuses" and women are not, Christine Battersby
noted in her brilliant book, Gender and Genius. This is not to say that
I am anxious for the "genius" label. But consider that I have
traversed the same route as Freud and mapped a completely different territory;
that my research is based on thousands of people, whereas he spoke with
only a handful. I wonder whether people will be able to hear my conclusions
or will insist on locating me within the confines of "sex and women's
topics," while Freud's work is considered a profound commentary about
the nature of human reality.
The very attitudes about women and men which I confront in my work also
operate to confound my ability to speak and write freely. The media and
publishing houses (but, fortunately, usually not the readers) converge
to form an invisible net of entrapment and ghettoization.
In 1990 I attended a meeting of the women's committee of PEN in New York.
Many women described being unable to get or renew publishing contracts.
They lamented they did not make big enough profits for the company, saying
"only the real moneymakers get published." I said that a financial
explanation is not sufficient: after all, every day hundreds of books
on obscure topics are published. Further, though my books have a track
record of making money, publishers tend to be nervous and do not always
accept my projects (unless they are about sex). Indeed, feminist projects
are having trouble for political reasons in this reactionary climate.
The agenda of many large publishing conglomerates is not only financial
but also political. These politics range from "don't upset anybody,
publish only safe books" to pushing a particular political philosophy.
Financial decisions are also political: At one large conglomerate, no
matter how much profit the feminist book division earns, it is not allowed
to plow this money back into its own division nor to give more than small
advances to authors, even those who made money for the house.
Even if a book has a chance of selling well, if it expresses radical political
opinions (such as those of Noam Chomsky, Gore Vidal, or Salman Rushdie,
as well as feminist activists) its publication may be hampered. But not
overtly.
Even in overt censorship, the ripples can be subtle. During the McCarthy
era, when Hollywood screenwriters and actors were investigated as "communist
sympathizers," some were jailed and most lost their ability to make
a living in the industry. Hollywood films lost the complicated and interesting
Betty DavisÐtype female characters of the 1940s to happy-girl or "innocent"
characterizations of Doris Day and Debbie Reynolds types of the 1950s.
Modern Mechanics of Censorship
Censorship today is not a man in a suit with a big red pen. There is
no formal bulletin on the six o'clock news that says, "Your news
is now being censored" so that those watching can conveniently decide
if they are prepared to do something about it. It just creeps around you,
a vaguely unpleasant feeling. You have to be alert to see what it is before
its mists engulf you.
Censorship happens in small ways, gradually. Only eventually does it amount
to a big problem, a stifling way of life.
How serious a problem is it now in the West? We have our own "disappeared"
here -- authors and other political dissidents disappearing from public
sight, going down for the third time with only a gurgle or two. For those
who take a stand, questions of "is it worth it?" and "how
long can I carry on?" surface daily.
In fact, it is hard to recognize censorship or suppression when you see
it -- hard to know if it is really happening or just some kind of bizarre
mistake, funny, not really serious, Kafkaesque.
Within the publishing houses, decisions are often made by committees,
with unanimous agreement required: If even one person on the editorial
board strongly disagrees with taking on a book another editor wants, it
cannot be published. One person can blackball it. I do not know the rationale
for this corporate policy, but new opinions and radical ideas almost never
make it past these editorial boards.
Censorship today is increased by the consolidation of publishing, magazines,
film, and television into a few hands. The term "free" market
is Orwellian doublespeak when media conglomerates buy up book publishing
houses not because they are so profitable but because books and their
reviews are part of the creation of public opinion. The story is told
in Ben Bagdakian's Media Monopoly.
Another cause of decreasing diversity in publishing is that in the United
States, the majority of bookstores are owned by two chains which control
demand by cutting prices to a level with which the independents cannot
compete. New publishing does spring up, but small new presses do not have
the connections and the financial ties with the chains that will enable
them to reach large numbers of people.
Finally, the last step of contemporary publishing can be the most censorious
of all, as every author knows. Whether the media indulges in harassment
and misinformation or simply ignores a book, it can be devastating. Modern
democracy is closely linked to media politics. The first action in military
coups in foreign countries is usually to take over the radio and television
stations by force. Was it a coup in the West when behind-the-scenes financial
interests bought up the media during the 1980s? They didn't need guns.
An aura of spreading censorship is hanging in the air, but the word, its
name, is not spoken. People change the subject, feeling unsafe, nervous.
Despite the seeming plethora of "information," what is available
to the public to read is more and more dictated by media monopolies, not
by our own interests and tastes. Diversification of media ownership and
programming control is key to keeping democracy running, keeping mass
democratic twenty-first-century society from developing an Orwellian madness
-- without wit or humor.
As in previous centuries, the official canon of history will again make
women invisible, except in decorative ways. Margaret Mead did groundbreaking
research on Samoa, yet The New York Times front-page obituary a few years
ago felt it correct to prominently note that "although she was never
a scientist, nevertheless . . . " This would never have been said
about a man who achieved what she achieved. Simone de Beauvoir mused from
time to time about whether "the canons" would have seen her
or accepted her if she weren't aligned with Jean Paul Sartre.
When the BBC and other worldwide networks sum up our era in their end-of-the-century
programming, will including women mean only showing the reels of the suffragettes
over and over, valuable as these are? Perhaps women need to buy their
own stations or to control programming for half the hours of the day and
create our own "canon." Then perhaps our women thinkers and
authors will be remembered for more than wearing high heels at an advanced
age.
Shere Hite's most recent books are Hite Report on the Family: Eroticism
and Power Between Parents and Children (1994) and Hite Report on the Family:
Growing Up Under Patriarchy (1995).
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